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“Be still prepared for death – and death or life shall thereby be the sweeter.”


William Shakespeare

Death Doula FAQs

What is a Death Doula?

I am a certified, non-medical person trained to support a dying person and their loved ones holistically (physically, emotionally and spiritually) at the end of life. Death Doulas are also known around the world as: end of life doulas, end of life practitioners, end of life coaches, soul midwives, transition guides, death coaches, doula to the dying, death midwives, spiritual midwives or end of life guides.


Do I have to be dying to work with an end of life doula?

No. Any person 18+, at any stage of life, can collaborate with me. The sooner we build our relationship the better! Regardless of how long you or your loved one has left on the journey, creating advanced directives and addressing challenging conversations help manage death anxiety and live a fuller life. No one has to die alone if they don’t want to.


What if someone wants End of Life Option Act / Medical Aid in Dying (MAID)? When do I call an end of life doula?

Now! I accompany folks who choose MAID as their end of life option, in states where it is currently legalized, including California. I am trained in Aid-in-Dying for end-of-life doulas and bedside attendants from American Clinicians Academy on Medical Aid-in-Dying (now called AADM - Academy of Aid-in-Dying Medicine). I would be honored to assist your dying day and be a part of your support team.


Do you support clients who choose VSED?

Yes. VSED means Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking. Some clients choose to hasten their disease process and experience the end of life naturally. VSED is the closest option to a natural death. When the body is ill, it naturally begins to shut down the digestion process.


Do death doulas work with hospice?

Yes. Death doulas often work alongside hospice. Hospice staff are generally limited to the number of hours of care due to budgeting and needs assessments. This is where my expertise as a death doula plays the biggest role!  Working as a companion with the hospice care team to fill the gap of holistic wants and needs.


Where do you practice as a death doulas?

As a death doula, I practice anywhere I am welcomed, available to assist you where you are! I am a virtual death doula (Tele-Doula) also. In person, I primarily practice in Placer County, El Dorado County, Nevada County and Sacramento County areas of northern California.


How much does your death doula service cost and how do I engage a contract? Who pays for this service?

Peace of mind is priceless. Death doula concierge services are private pay and not covered by insurance. Each end of life process is unique and so is each package created. The initial 30 minute discovery consultation is FREE! Next we determine services desired, estimate hours needed, agree upon hourly rate/package rate, and create a clearly written contract signed by doula and client. 


Who certifies or trains doulas?

There are MANY trainings and likely be more as the death doula service grows. The average beginning cost of an end of life course is $750 and up, and can range from a weekend to several months long. Every training varies in what they teach and specialize in. Some courses are natural burial focused while others are more spiritual. This depends on the doula and their areas of practice. I am certified with the International Doulagivers Institute and hold a NEDA Proficiency Badge.


How do I find an end of life doula near me? You aren’t in my area.

I am virtual too, available as a Tele-Doula! Always feel comfortable to contact me for a consultation! I am able to serve in person nationwide with the client covering travel expenses and fees.  Additionally, there are several death doula directories that you can search by state. Please refer to the Resources page.


Let’s connect!

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Rita's Certifications

Rita completed her Doulagivers Specialist Holistic Non-Medical End of Life Practitioner certification with Suzanne B. O'Brien, RN who founded Doulagivers and the International Doulagivers Institute.


The Dying Year Certified End of Life Doula


Aid-in-Dying training for end-of-life doulas and bedside attendants from American Clinicians Academy on Medical Aid in Dying 

“By replacing fear of the unknown with curiosity we open ourselves up to an infinite stream of possibility.”


Alan Watts

Testimonies

"Very Dear Rita, 

My heart overflows with gratitude our paths crossed, we spent such high quality time together, and you shared my ultimate journey.  Thank you so, so much for all you've done for me!  Holy wow indeed! Timeless love."


"Thanks for your support to Jack & Anita, she commented that your 1:1 with Jack meant so much to her!"


"You did so much for Leon.  Helping him to do email, games and computer activities.  Your love and enthusiasm were so supportive of him." 


"Thank you so much for providing comfort and support to Marie. That's a long drive, your visits made a huge difference."


"Your presence was so supportive to Rae, thanks for your caring spirit." 


"Thank you for the late night vigil so my father would not have to spend his last hours alone." 

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